***I would hate to be known as the guy who spoiled “Avengers: Endgame” for someone, so please go watch the movie before reading on. You’ll thank me later.***
Last night, my son tried on his Halloween costume. I needed to make sure it fit (it was a hand-me-down from a friend). Had it not, I was going straight to the store to buy a new one. I’ve been planning his costume since the opening weekend of “Avengers: Endgame”.
For fans of the Marvel Cinematic Universe, there is little doubt that one of the biggest moments in the series happened during that movie as Thor was about to meet his demise. Thanos stood over him, slowly sinking Stormbreaker (Thor’s magical axe) into his chest. Just when it seemed like all hope was lost, Mjolnir (Thor’s enchanted hammer) intervened, knocking Thanos over long enough to save Thor.
As the two turned toward the direction from which Mjolnir had come, they saw Captain America summon the weapon back to his grasp.
Thor verbalized what everyone in the audience was thinking: “I knew it!” It was no shock that Steve Rogers was worthy.
Many years earlier, Steve underwent a dangerous procedure as he received the Super Soldier Serum and became the hero we know as Captain America.
The night before the transformation, Dr. Erskine, the scientist who had chosen Steve for the program, gave him an important challenge:
“Whatever happens tomorrow, you must promise me one thing. That you will stay who you are. Not a perfect soldier, but a good man.”
All those years later, as this mortal lifted and wielded this weapon of the gods, we got to see how special he really was. And it wasn’t because the serum had turned him into a perfect soldier. It was because he had remained a good man.
Watching Cap proceed to deliver blow after blow to the face of the great Titan was so very satisfying. We already knew that he was worthy. Now we got to see just what he was capable of doing.
I chose my son’s costume for a couple of reasons. The first is probably obvious: Cap wielding Mjolnir is what we’ve been waiting our entire lives to see.
The second reason may not be as obvious though.
As a parent to a child with a disability, I have been given a unique perspective. I don’t know what it’s like to be disabled, mind you, but I have become sensitive to the ways that many people talk about and treat those who are.
I’m reminded of the couple who expressed sympathy for me and my wife when our son was born with Down syndrome. And I think about the way that people will sometimes talk about him like he’s a cute pet instead of a human child.
Or I think about the way that the conversations around prenatal diagnoses tend to be framed. Too often, disability is treated like a tragedy.
But I look at my son, and I don’t see a tragedy.
I see a boy who loves his life and brings joy to ours.
A boy with a sense of humor who likes to make people laugh.
He’s a kid who gets frustrated, sad, and scared. He has preferences and dislikes.
He loves music and his Pooh Bear. He loves books. He has a lot of personality. He’s more like his typical peers than he is different from them.
So this year for Halloween, he’s going as Captain America with Mjolnir in hand. Because he’s worthy of the life he’s been given.
He’s worthy because he’s fully human. He may never be a perfect soldier, but one day he’ll be a man. And based on what I’ve seen so far, I suspect he’ll be a good one.
I can’t wait to see what he’s capable of doing.
7 thoughts on “My Son is Worthy”
Adam I think this is great. Jude will grow up to be a wonderful man just like his dad. None of us are perfect. And he will probably be able to do more than we ever have or will do. He is a precious little boy.
this is beautifully written and yes your son like mine is not a pet he is a human being like every other child, and yes he will grow up into a good man like my son has, because he has been brought up believing in himself and knowing that he’s worthy. love the article all the best your son will surprise you and most of all he will bring you love!
This is a beautiful story and so true. As a parent of a 38 yr old Down’s syndrome man I have learned more about life from my son than anything else except from the Bible.
Our 44year old son is the joy of our life! God has blessed us with someone who truly cares for us, helps us daily in our old age. Keeps us entertained and gives us a purpose to get up in the morning.
Thank you Lord for giving us this precious joy in our life.
So pleased to find your writing! Our son with trisomy 21 is three months old and we think he’s gorgeous.
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I have goose bumps! Yesterday when I went with my daughter to pick up my granddaughter at Preschool at Woodland, Emerson told me the verse they had been learning all week. “I will praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful!” Psalm 139:14. I “happened” to have on a t-shirt with that on the back. It was a shirt supporting my great nephew, Maddox, who has a disability as well (22Q). They are both worthy and wonderful as we all are! I needed this reminder this week as I am struggling with continued migraines and recovery from rotator cuff surgery. I have been in a dark place wallowing in the whys and feeling put in a shelf by God, not feeling worthy. Time to brush it off and remember that I am worthy!
Your nephew is beautiful and has a huge purpose in his life! What a blessing it will be to watch his life unfold as he blossoms into the person God created him to be! ❤️
I meant your son not nephew. Feel free to edit my comment